Burials

Traditional or informal

Funeral services can be as formal or informal as you would like – and it’s entirely up to you as to how religious the service is depending on your beliefs and the wishes of your loved one.

John Gray & Co Funeral Directors can organise the funeral and a burial at your chosen cemetery, graveyard or burial ground and purchase a grave on your behalf where necessary. The service would traditionally take place at the service room at the funeral home, attended by family and friends.

If you already have a family burial plot we will arrange for it to be reopened before the burial. You are unable to purchase burial plots which are next to each other or reserving multiple plots. We can help you with arranging the preparation of the grave.

What happens at a burial?

On the day of the funeral, depending on your preference, mourners may assemble at the funeral home or church. The coffin will be at the service room ready to be taken with the cortege after the service.

A funeral service usually lasts around 20 to 60 minutes and can include a number of hymns or non-religious songs that mean something to you, eulogies and readings.

Following the funeral service (should you choose to have one) the committal service usually takes place at the graveside with the minister, clergy or other non-religious officiant conducting the service. This can be tailored to your requests with readings, songs and prayers.

John Gray & Co Funeral Directors can assist you in every step of the funeral and burial arrangements so please don’t hesitate to ask us about any aspects or queries you may have.

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We offer a masonry service for new pieces, additional inscriptions or renovations to existing memorials.

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Our pricing

Funeral prices vary depending on the type of ceremony you would like for your loved one. There are many options to choose from to make it unique and special.

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Planning ahead?

It is now really easy to plan ahead, making a huge difference by easing the burden on your family when the time comes, so they can focus on the arrangements.

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Need advice?

John Gray & Co Funeral Directors can assist you in every step of the funeral so please don’t hesitate to ask us about any aspects or queries you may have.

We can’t thank Anne Marie, Liam and the whole team enough for their care and support around my dad’s funeral. From the very beginning, Anne Marie was kind, patient and incredibly organised, and the way she gently guided my mum through each step made a…

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Everything was fantastic, detailed and nothing too difficult. With a large family and lots of visitors in and out, the team were amazing and always welcome. Thank you particularly to Anne-Marie who had the upmost patience, kindness and provided us with undivided attention.

Danielle

Ann-Marie was great in dealing with what is our first direct death in the family giving compassionate support and valuable advice. Paul was very professional and extremely helpful in making sure the funnel went according to plan. Both are to be highly praised on their…

David Shivers

Mike Smith was outstanding, he handled our arrangements right from initial contact through to the funeral itself and made sure we were kept fully informed throughout. We really appreciated his professionalism and that he really cares about the job he’s doing and the people he’s…

Mark Crothers

Following the sad death of my late wife my son and I called upon the use of John Gray & Co. Throughout the whole process, we were treated with immense kindness and compassion, and when my dear late wife was returned home, it was clear…

Pat Hazard

All the staff at John Gray, Bangor were excellent. Nothing was too much trouble. They were all very friendly, kind and accommodating for our requirements. Everything was organized exactly. All the staff are very knowledgeable, thorough in their processes and professional with full decorum shown…

Sid Dis

I would like to offer my sincere and heartfelt thanks to John Gray Funeral Directors for the wonderful service provided to the family at a very difficult time. Barbara looked after all the arrangements and guided the family with compassion, understanding and professionalism. Barbara's attention…

Stephen Brennan

The service provided by all in John grays was excellent. In particular Barbara was very helpful & considerate of our situation. They made a difficult time more bearable .

Anonymous

Excellent service, so helpful and sensitive in all that they did for us. Thank you

Jenny

Gray’s were absolutely brilliant - literally could but have been more helpful. We had a funeral plan in place but didn’t realise quite how much there is still to do. Carolyn & Anne Marie (hope I got the right names) did everything possible to make…

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